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I've been thinking about how we always seem to want opposing things at the same time, like we want to be completely independent and self-sufficient but we also desperately crave deep connection and belonging with others, and we want stability and security in our lives but we also seek excitement and new experiences, and it seems like we're constantly trying to pursue both ends of these spectrums simultaneously even though they appear to contradict each other fundamentally